You have heard these scenarios before:
The intellectual student that dropped out of college because she couldn’t manage her time properly.
The CEO who stumbles through life because he is deeply rooted in debt.
The parents that call their children’s managers because their kids can’t speak for themselves.
As peculiar as these situations seem, they are real. Many parents don’t take the time to train their children on how to survive as adults. They assume that their children will learn life skills at school, but teachers can only do so much. Before your teen turns 18, instill these skills in them.
Do you want to train your kids on skills that can make or break their success in the future? Teach them how to handle money. Train them on how to manage debt, invest, delay gratification, and increase income streams. You can start these lessons even before your little ones reach teenage. Use practical examples by allowing them to manage small amounts of cash.
Every child should have essential cooking skills. If they don’t know how to prepare simple meals, they will waste a lot of money on eating out. Consequently, they may eat a lot of unhealthy snacks. Show them how to light the stove. Next, allow them to help you mix ingredients as you train them on how to do it. By the time your child leaves home, they should know how to shop for groceries.
How to be Self-Starters
Employers are complaining that recent graduates cannot complete simple tasks without step-by-step instructions. Research shows that many grew up in homes where parents kept schedules and followed up on everything. Allow kids to experience independence and allow them to figure out stuff on their own. Doing this helps boost self-esteem.
Parenting is a lifetime commitment, but you should also realize that you will not be ever-present in your child’s life. The best gift you can extend is training them for any emergencies, and first aid is one of them. Can your child manage a bleeding finger? Do they know how to handle a burn? What if their roommates chocked? Can they save the roommate?
Your teen will go on dressing how you trained him even after getting a job. So, if you don’t instruct them on appropriate dressing codes, they will end up showing for a manager’s interview in a T-shirt and sandals. Fashion may evolve, but some things never change. Teach them how to pick the appropriate clothes for various occasions. Sewing is also paramount.
Lack of organization is among the main factors that result in poor time management. A disorganized person is always looking for an item and running late for meetings. A clean room and de-cluttered wardrobe not only makes it easy to find things, but it also translates to an organized mind. Train your teen the Kaizen rule that states, “There is a place for everything and everything has its place.”